A long time ago, I did a psychology degree and worked for many years in paid and volunteer counseling roles, but I was not convinced the therapy models available to me were effective enough for my work with clients or for healing my own trauma – so I quit and did other things. A few years ago, I was lucky enough to come across a therapist who had trained in IFS and discover how amazing IFS was as a client experiencing it for the first time. I decided to retrain and return to working as a therapist.
As a survivor of complex trauma I really understand how scary it can be to come to therapy. I especially get how difficult shame can be, but I know we can heal it.
My clients have described my style as gentle, warm, calm and clear with a sense of humour.
IFS ongoing learning and personal development
Here are some things I do to keep growing my IFS experience and skills:
- I am an IFS client and I attend my own individual and group IFS therapy. I have more than 150 hours of experience as an IFS client.
- I attend regular individual, group and peer consultation. My consultants include people with more than 25 years of experience with IFS.
- I help deliver IFS training as a program assistant providing practice feedback to therapists learning IFS.
- I participate in a fortnightly peer meet with other therapists to share and explore our own parts in a group.
- I am part of an ongoing IFS therapist study group sharing IFS learning and practicing the model together with peer feedback.
- I run an IFS book group where IFS-trained therapists come together to discuss published IFS resources.
- I participate in online forums learning from, and contributing to, the global IFS community.
IFS trainings
- 2024
- Direct Access – An Essential Skill – May
- 2023
- Ketamine and Mental Health – July
- Deepening Skills in the IFS Model – Apr-Jun – current
- Intimacy from the Inside Out – Level 2 IFS training in couples work – Jan-Mar
- 2022
- Self energy and self-like parts: A relationship, not a polarization – Oct-Nov
- IFS Institute Annual Conference 2022, Expanding our Perspectives: Revitalizing Inner Resources – Sept
- Compassion for Addictive Process: An IFS Lens – Aug-Sept
- 2-Day Intensive Workshop: Treating Complex Trauma with Internal Family Systems – Jun
- IFS Perspectives on Families Affected by Autism – May-Aug
- Anxiety, Depression and Shame: Understanding the Connections, Healing the Burdens – Mar
- IFS Skills Immersion – Feb-Jul
- IFS as a Spiritual Path – Feb
- The Art of Negotiation in IFS Sessions: Challenging Protectors and Workable Agreements – Jan-Apr
- 2021
- IFS and Attachment Trauma – Nov
- Daily Parts Meditation Practice: Peer Group Workshop – Nov
- Intro to IFS – Nov
- IFS Conference 2021: Restoring Wholeness Through Collective Transformation – Oct
- IFS Legacy and Cultural Burdens: Essential information – Sep
- IFS and Health issues: Changing the Course of Health Ailments and Disease – Sep
- Bringing IFS Informed Practice to Groups – Aug-Dec
- Compassionate Approaches to Working with Psychosis – Aug-Sep
- 3 Lenses of Self Led Sexuality – Aug-Sep
- 2020
- The Farther Reaches of IFS: Unattached Burdens and Guides – Jun
- IFS Level 1 – Feb-Jun
- Parenting with the IFS model – May
- IFS Online Circle – Mar
Other training and qualifications
- Specialist Course in Couple Therapy, Level 2 – 2004
- Evidence Based Practice – Aug 2003
- Specialist Course in Couple Therapy, Level 1 – 2002
- Acquired Brain Injury and Sexuality – 2002
- Bachelor of Psychology (Hons) – 2001